In my last blog post, I invited you to rewrite your story. To start fresh, free from the weight of outdated beliefs, focusing only on the facts and identifying which stories no longer serve you—or may not even be true. I hope you’ve taken the time to reflect on those questions and uncovered the beliefs you’ve been carrying around. Remember, this is an ongoing journey. As you continue, more stories and beliefs will surface, illuminating what’s been holding you back and giving you the chance to release what no longer fits.
Now, it’s time to choose the filter through which you’ll evaluate these beliefs. What will be your guiding principle, your North Star? What core beliefs will help you determine what is truly serving your life? For me, it’s the Bible and the wisdom found within its scriptures. Every story I’ve told myself has been examined through this lens, serving as a yardstick to measure what truly belongs in my life. Without a compass or a true North, we can easily become lost—unable to distinguish between what’s real and what’s been shaped by society, or even well-intentioned influences from our family.
Your filter doesn’t have to be spiritual. It could be a set of core values—non-negotiable principles that guide your life. These values should support you in becoming the best version of yourself. If you’re unsure where to begin, try this powerful exercise: Imagine yourself at 85 years old, sitting on the front porch, reflecting on your life with a loved one or close friend. What would you want to say about your journey? Who did you show up as for yourself and others? Or take it a step further—what would you want to hear others say about you in your final hour? This exercise can help you define the principles that will serve as your filter, helping you assess and refine the stories you’ve accumulated along the way.
The stories you carry should inspire you, not limit you. They should propel you toward growth and fulfillment, not hold you back. What would it look like if every story you embraced were aligned with the highest vision of who you are meant to be? Now is the time to rewrite your story—not just for today, but for the rest of your life.
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